Monday, April 26, 2010

How To Sew A Skirt When You Are 5 Years Old

I'd always wondered what sort of first sewing project
the girls would do. When I was small, I started out hand-
sewing tiny felt stuffed animals. I did not like dolls so I
didn't sew doll clothes. In primary (elementary) school,
we were taught cross-stitch, which became a pencil case
that fastened with press-studs. All the mothers/
grandmothers were obliged to sew the linings. I suppose
some of my classmates actually used their pencil cases.
I preferred my plastic-vinyl Little Twin Stars double-sided
pencil box with 1 million different compartments, that, in
a pinch could be hurled at the boys in the next-door school
who called us names at recess time. I never did, of course,
but it was good to have a contingency plan.

It got me thinking - when my girls are in sewing class/homec
/whatever it's called here, what sort of half-finished project
will they bring home that I might have to help them out with?
Our secondary (middle) school homec project was a fitted
A-line skirt and many of the zippers were sewn by the mothers.
I don't remember, but Mum claims she wasn't one of them.
Apparently, I was 13 years old and I sewed my own zipper.
Hurrah and all that, but I never ever actually wore the
skirt, you
know? It was so uncool.

Fast forward several decades to 2009, and Emily is asking,
"Can I sew, too, Mom?" "Can I make something?" "When
will I be old enough to get my own sewing machine, Mom?"

"When you're 8 years old" came my answer, because that's
the recommended age printed on the boxes of child-sized
sewing machines.

Last week, she asked again. And again. And I remembered
Rowena's very thought-provoking post and thought, well,
who am I to say no?

So she sewed her first skirt yesterday.

And wore it to school.

Am I proud? You betcha.

Am I frightened? Hoo, yes. If I'm not careful, Jenna's going
to want to sew a winter coat next. And then Kate. And I'll
have to get in line to use my own sewing machine.
But I figure, well, it'll be worth it - if we do this right,
I won't
have to lift a finger when she brings home
some homec thing.
And maybe soon I'll be able to
growl, "whaddya mean, you
have nothing to wear?
Go make your own clothes." With the
same ease as
getting her own drink of water, or a snack.


Am I crazy? Why yes, in some new way every day.

But I'd like to share how we did it, just in case you too
have a young person in your house that is desperate to
start. Word to the wise, though: don't push them to start
just because you want them to. Let them wear you down
with
their asking. Start with something they like. It may
not be
as simple as something else (that they may not
like), but it
can be simplified. A gathered skirt is
a rectangle that has
one straight side seam. It doesn't
get any more basic than
that. But it has a waistband.
And a hem. A beginner sewer
can do it, therefore a
child can, with some help. But if it's
simplified further,
the child can sew
even more of it, with less help.


We used two layers - same width - the inner layer slightly
longer than the outer layer. We also used a big safety pin
and some 1" elastic.
Our inner layer is an eyelet fabric whose scalloped
bottom hem is already finished, and pretty, besides.
You could use that for the outer layer as well, and not
have to finish any hems! But two layers of eyelet fabric
was a tad too Rodgers and Hammerstein for me,
personally, so we just used one.


Two layers make a natural sandwich for elastic
without having to fold a waistband hem.

For how to make this waistband,
see my ancient
skorts tutorial.
We also used a serger to finish the outer layer with
a rolled hem. This means no folded hems and no basting.

It took Emily about an hour to make.
She sewed three seams, serged two seams, did
one rolled hem, sewed the ends of the elastic together,
and one line of stitching to make the elastic casing.
I pinned the fabric pieces together for her, and drew
the sewing lines. She also needed a little help
threading the elastic through the waistband. I
desperately wanted to add patch pockets but it
shouldn't be about me - this was her skirt.

We first practised sewing straight lines and getting
a steady pressure on the foot pedal.
She was fascinated
by how everything worked.
She loved the backstitch
lever and the little thread-cutting knife blade.

There are no photos of her at the sewing machine
because I didn't take my eyes off her for even a
second while she was working. Two reasons: safety,
and I was just enthralled watching her sew.


So a recap of my lessons learned:
  1. Let them tell me when they're ready to start.
  2. Pick something they really want to make, not something simpler that they aren't interested in. Simplify. A tote can be a single rectangle folded down the middle with just two straight side seams. Substitute broad ribbons or nylon webbing for fabric straps and it can be finished in half an hour.
  3. They may likely get distracted halfway and need to watch a movie, or eat a snack. Emily stuck at it because she was motivated by her desire to wear it to school that day.
  4. I must be prepared to watch them sew crooked seams, draw thick ugly sewing lines all over the fabric, have the print not meet at the seams and not say a word.
And I love that it all began with, "So mom, can I make
a skirt to wear to school today?" Ah, if only it worked
that way when
I have nothing to wear to work,
or the supermarket.

46 comments:

  1. How wonderful. My son is four and has wondered when he can sew.... not quite yet, but I wonder what an appropriate project for a 5 year old boy would be?

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    1. Pillowcase? Lego sack?

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    2. Pants... I was thinking pants though my 5 year old boy did make a pillowcase dress for his little sister

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    3. My 5year old son sewed a purse, to carry the money safely to the bakery and back - I loved it. He picked two fabrics, I put some felt for stability in between. And then he experimented with my sewing machine: faster, slower, this stitch, that one, that thread and this one - it was wonderful. When he was done, I cut a paper pattern, he put it on the micro-quilt, traced it, I cut (my scissors were to big for his hands and his paperscissors didn`t get through), folded it over to form a purse with flap, fixed it with a wide stich and put bias tape with a little help all around. It was carried around for weeks. "hab ich näht" (I sewed it) he would tell every one and smile. Oh lord, what a smile!!!!

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  2. That is so cooool! Her skirt is a lot better looking than anything I could do now!!!

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  3. wow...awesome...beautiful finish and pretty fabric too

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  4. This is too cute! My 5 year old is super excited to get out her Hello Kitty sewing machine and get to work! Thanks for posting this adorable tutorial.

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  5. What a gift you're giving your daughters in encouraging their early interests and teaching them how to do it!

    I think you have a lot more patience than I had at that stage of the game. I might do better now as a grandma... we'll see when the time comes. ;)

    The skirt is adorable!

    BTW, do schools even teach Home Ec anymore? Many young women sure don't seem to know how to sew. I think I 'had to' take it for about 5 years back in the day (40+ years ago!). I hated it, but that was mostly because of the snaggly teacher. ;)

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  6. This is brilliant! I once read an article on an impending skills shortage due to mothers and fathers not handing down the skills they have to their children. Scary stuff really. I was so excited to see that you are teaching your children very useful skills at such a young age. Great job!

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  7. Hey, I got my first sewing machine for my 8th birthday...and it was a real one, not a kids one. I haven't stopped sewing since!

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  8. If that's not the cutest skirt!! How awesome you are (as a mommy) for allowing her to 'jump right in' and make herself something. I would have never thought of a skirt as a 'first project.' But why not??

    My daughter's first was the same as mine-- a pillow for her bed. I'll have to show her this post and get her inspired.

    Thanks for the tutorial as well! :D

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  9. What fun! I remember my Mom teaching me to sew. Two things really stand out. First, she helped me on any step I asked. I started out only sewing straight seams, she did the zippers, sleeves and collars. I did them as I got more comfortable and sewed my first dress start-to-finish at 9.

    Once I sewed through my finger. Mom bandaged it and made me sit down and sew again right away. It was brilliant because it kept me from getting scared of the machine.

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  10. I bet she is so proud of her new skirt!! My daughter (6 years old) has also recently begun to sew. One word of advice: don't let the project sit so long that the child outgrows it. That happened to me with a pair of pants!! I had to go back and add ruffles at the bottom.

    I linked to your post on Craft Gossip Sewing:
    http://sewing.craftgossip.com/tutorial-teach-a-child-to-sew-with-an-easy-gathered-skirt/2010/05/01/
    --Anne

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  11. I think Emily's sewing skills may surpass mine by the time she is 6 or 7! That's an impressive first sewing project - way to go!

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  12. congratulations to your sweet daughter on such a lovely project!

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  13. Love this! My girls have been begging me to teach them to sew but I keep going back to the ideas of puckered pillows and ugly gym bags that I sewed in Home Ec. The skirt is a perfect beginner project. Thank you so much for sharing. I'm now a bit more encouraged that it's something my girls can actually do.

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  14. Thank you for this! My 6-year-old daughter has been begging for sewing lessons. She made a doll once, but it was too hard and I ended up finishing it. This is PERFECT.

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  15. Awesome! My dd is 6 and wants to learn to sew, knit and crochet. I did manage to teach her finger crochet for now. I think we will try this dress.

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  16. Yeah to Emily!!!! Beautiful skirt. I have a 6 yr. old seamstress also. Boy is it fun!

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  17. She did a wonderful job. Good for you for being such an inspiration to your daughters!

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  18. I understand- My 5 y/o helped sew her scooby-doo camouflage shorts.. hems and all. Good job!

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  19. Love, Love, Love! I hope in a couple of years my little girl is excited about making something herself. She loves to come in my studio and pretend to sew and has even tried to use my little hand crank sewing machine.

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  20. Well! I'll be.... if your 5 year old can sew like that, I'll bet that it is possible for me and I am a grown up adult!

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  21. That is great! My 5 year old is starting to wear me down. I have let her sew straight lines down the center of fabric scraps and follow lines on paper. She is pretty good. Maybe it is time to move on to a skirt.

    My problem is I. Me. I. want to sew on the sewing machine. Patience.

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  22. How wonderful to see her enjoying it and doing such a nice job, too.

    I remember my mom showed me how to use her sewing machine was I was 5, but mostly I handstitched (wretched) things.

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  23. so smart! I like having my girl around me, but that does mean she wants to do what I'm doing too! I appreciate your advice and insights. I would not have realized the value of a 2-layer skirt as a simple project.

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  24. Her skirt looks amazing! I made a little felt bear (by hand) when I was four or five, and I would have loved to try a sewing machine. Mike actually made a little doll on his grandma's sewing machine when he was two years old!

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  25. This is so cute! My youngest daughter has been begging and begging to sew with me (she's 4) so I finally let her sit on my lap and sew a headband. lol Let me tell you, she is SO proud of that little thing and wears is everyday. She is sure to tell everyone within speaking distance that she made it herself. I can't wait till she's a little bit older so we can move on up to clothes. :)

    Autumn
    TheFickleHobbyist.com

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  26. Great job! It's wonderful that you're passing on this skill to your girls. FYI, in S'pore sewing is no longer taught in Homec. The focus now is on Food & Nutrition. Sad , isn't it ?
    Theresa

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  27. My mother made the mistake of threading a needle for me at the age of 3! All my primary years I made clothes for my dolls that I received every Christmas and sometimes during the year. I saved my "milk money" and cleaned my father's records until I was 12 and purchased my own REAL sewing machine. (My mother paid the tax on the machine-SHE got the better part of the deal on that one!) I made an apron-drew each piece of it on paper first and then a blouse from a commercial pattern in 7th grade. I didn't have home ec again until high school. I made a shirtwaist dress and a simple jacket/A line skirt. I taught both my daughters to sew at 3 and my grandaughter. My eldest daughter taught my other grandaughter to sew because she lives in Alaska! I'm now teaching how to sew a cloth doll to total strangers as of June this year. It's FUN to pass on skills since there is no Home Ec classes anymore.
    Oh yeah. I did pull that line about "make it yourself", but my daughters never really said they "had nothing to wear" because they HAD made clothes for themselves!

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  28. I'm a grandmother/epreneur and what you have done online is TERRIFIC!!!
    I have 2 customers who want matching doll clothes/girl clothes sizes 2-14. Where can I find a measurement chart that shows all 20 some odd measurements so that I can draft designs myself. Even a chart that shows one size and a tutorial on how the grade that size would be EXTREMELY helpful. It's March 23rd 2011. Could you send an answer ASAP? I can't find a chart for the measurements except for a fraction of the 20 some odd measurements.
    I would rather NOT use commercial patterns because I want the drafting to be totally done by me!
    HELP!!!
    Shirley
    shirleyscreativedesigns2005@yahoo.com
    Check out my website http://www.shirleyscreativedesigns.com since you have little girls and don't like to make dolls yourself. My youngest daughter, now in college, put my site together. Do you need an actual website for your tutoring? 775-267-4772

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  29. following you from http://sewpizazzed.blogspot.com/

    Kerry

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  30. Love it! Thank you for sharing. My boys are fascinated with my sewing machine, might have to let them give it a whirl!

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  31. Hi
    I am thirteen and have recently finished an a-line dress in my textiles class at High School.
    NeedleGirl

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  32. Thank you for writing this post, I came across it one night and it totally inspired me. I went straight to my sewing room with my daughters and they made their first skirts, they were so thrilled! You can see pictures here:
    http://showtellshare.blogspot.com/2011/11/crafty-kids-make-their-own-skirts.html#comments

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  33. I love this project and the accompanying story! I have been looking for a beginner project for my 6 year old granddaughter and I think this is it! How fun to make something you can wear as apposed to a doll blanket or some other lame project!

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  34. wow...awesome...beautiful finish and pretty fabric too

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  35. I read this post a bit late, but I was surprised to see that someone else in the world once had my same pencil box (plastic-vinyl Little Twin Stars double-sided pencil box with 1 million different compartments)!!! Exactely I mean the pink rectangular one with magnetic closures on both sides!!
    I'm a mummy too, and happy to see that also now the sewing machine is our kids' favourite game!
    Hugs from Italy!
    Jade.

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  36. If you are interested in a sewing machine for children, I can recommend the Janome Sew Mini. It is a real sewing machine, not a toy, but it is perfect for beginners. I even use it for small projects sometimes. Watch for a coupon and you should be able to get it for under $50. The only negative is no light, but I've added a clip on light.

    Grandma of 2 little sewers (boy and girl)

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    1. Thank you for the recommendation! Am always happy to hear about what other folks use with their kids. The day will come when I will have to think of a machine for Emily, and I'll be so glad for your input!

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    2. Thank you! About to start teaching kids how to sew and will be buying machines. Will look for the one you recommended.

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  37. I purchased my first sewing machine just this year, at the age of 21, & I've taught myself how to do everything on it [which isn't much yet]. I have to say, I wish I had a mom like you! Don't get me wrong, my mom is wonderful - that side of the family was just never crafty. But, I taught myself how to knit & crochet at a young age, so I figure teaching myself to use a sewing machine can't be much different, right? The internet is wonderful for teaching yourself anything, I've learned. :]

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  38. My own kids are 5YO and 8YO, I also teach sewing to 3rd to 8th graders, and I have to say that for a 5YO to be able to sew this, they have extroidinary fine motor skills and a greater attention span than any 5YO I've every known. IMHO the majority of kids don't have this level of development until they are until they are somewhere between 7 to 8!

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  39. I just found this and love! Only thing is a serger doesn't do rolled hems and zooming in on the hem it looks like a mock merrow edge stitch which is something I do as well. The rolled hem takes a special presser foot and is done on a single needle machine.

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  40. So, my 4 year old granddaughter told me she was getting a sewing machine for Christmas. I quickly texted Santa and asked why she hadn't told me! Santa replied, "Because it's the first I've heard of it." So, Mema got her first sewing machine and the week after Christmas she and her brother (age 7) came for a few days. He complained that he wanted to sew too, so I got out my small machine I take to classes. They both have made a quilt. Hers is doll sized and we finished it this weekend. His is larger, he added a border and sandwiched it this weekend. He'll quilt it next time we are together.

    So, now Ruby wants her next project to be clothes. I think we'll start with this skirt! Thank you!

    Judith Inge

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  41. We did it! She did most of the sewing, I helped with the cutting and put in the elastic. She's so proud!
    [img]https://scontent-a-iad.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/t1/p180x540/1972430_10202349956862436_70418947_n.jpg[/img]
    Judith Inge

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